I'm a blogger failure

I have come to the conclusion that I suck at blogging. I love going out and reading and posting on everyone else's sites, but when it comes to mine, I have no idea of what to write.

The pregnancy is going normally and I really have nothing to report. Just monthly doctor visits, moving to bi-monthly visits next. I have gained weight a little faster than I'd like, but I am not too freaked out. DH came home with the stomach flu so now we are quarantining him so I don't get sick too. I can't imagine what that would be like.

Oh, there were 2 new happenings. 1. We are going to Hawaii on a baby-moon when I am 31 weeks along, and 2. my friend has graciously offered to give me a baby shower. I don't understand these parties very much and all of the etiquette around them, so I am not sure who should be invited to these things. Do I invite my family that is so far away that I am pretty sure that they can't come? My mom I know can't be there, she is in a wheelchair and cannot travel at all anymore, so do I send her an invitation? I feel like it's fishing for gifts and frankly I could care less about the gifts, I am more interested in just seeing everyone and hanging out. Anyone out there who reads this, albeit there probably aren't that many of you as I stated before I SUCK at this, have any advice on this dilemma, I am totally open to your thoughts.